{"id":437,"date":"2022-06-25T19:17:53","date_gmt":"2022-06-25T19:17:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/honeyrand.com\/staging\/3053\/?p=437"},"modified":"2024-06-09T03:51:43","modified_gmt":"2024-06-09T03:51:43","slug":"the-chairs-on-the-titanic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/honeyrand.com\/staging\/3053\/2022\/06\/25\/the-chairs-on-the-titanic\/","title":{"rendered":"The Chairs on the Titanic"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-47dab3ee4be1a4a44e914543bb4c68d8\">Today I took my own advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-d6c0a4484ee634406aa085be2f202a07\">Since I was in my early twenties, I\u2019ve been in charge of someone at work. Over time, the staff grew and became more complex, requiring a management structure. Five people reporting to a manager can vary depending on who\u2019s in and what they do. Twenty-five direct reports are too many, so in-between managers create a management structure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-c3f95edfd2cd40543c27a431eb480dd5\">Promoting someone from \u201cpeer\u201d to management is fun and fraught. I told new \u201csupervisors\u201d that things don\u2019t appear different, but they are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-3bffa72fbf373e1cd3af97a9e3e91323\">Everyone knows you make more money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-7e3ee24ad3b068bd90948304be3dfb3b\">You will have to support, coach and ultimately judge your former peers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-9471d88b2ff3880c26057f3230439976\">You now have different responsibilities (and pressures) than they do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-23a848c9d6375d27b71e7105ab9eca7f\">There\u2019s more like some people will be jealous. They may try to undermine you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-primary-color has-text-color has-link-color wp-elements-1a133d2a3de439c51e2c5f1705e75390\">Passive-aggressive. Malicious obeyance. 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